An Tale of Unexpected Generosity: The Time a Student Allowed Me to Stay on Her Dorm Floor

Back in 2006, I traveled to Canberra for an admissions interview for medical school. I figured to arrange accommodation after getting there, yet upon reaching the city, a major event was in town and every single youth hostels and affordable lodging were completely sold out.

As a visitor from Singapore, the idea crossed my mind perhaps I could spend the night at the terminal – only to discover that airport, not like the one back home, closes around the clock. Unsure of what my next move should be and feeling increasingly desperate, I hopped on a city-bound bus and began walking near the casino, reasoning I could pass those hours in a place that was open 24/7. This was not ideal in the ideal condition for acing an interview the next day, but as a broke student, I couldn’t afford.

The world needs more individuals with such compassion.

It seems I seemed lost since a young woman spotted me wandering around the city center and inquired if I was OK. I recounted my predicament and right away she offered I could crash on the floor at her university residence at ANU – a perfect solution, considering that was where the important interview was scheduled for the next day. She went further by offering me some free dinner: a leftover filled rolls she brought back her work shift. I was able to use warm shower facilities and a protected spot and secure to sleep.

In retrospect, it’s clear to me what a big chance she took as a woman inviting a man who was a complete stranger sleep on her floor. At that time I existed within my male privilege bubble and did not consider about things like that. Today, as a parent, I am astonished she did that – yet very grateful.

I never did attending the Australian National University, and I didn’t meet her again, yet her memory has stayed with me that incredible gesture of kindness. It is my wish life has repaid her act of kindness tenfold. We could all use more folks with such compassion.